Would You Really Change What Happened?

What Would You Change If You Could?

Some things you can’t change. They are done.  But you can let God redeem them.

Have you ever thought back over your life and wondered what you would photochange if you could? There are a few things I would change”nothing in the grand scheme of things”but a few things.

Some of the situations I used to think I would adjust, because I wanted to change them so bad, well, I’m not sure that I would change them now. They helped make me, me. And if I hadn’t had those things I would probably have been someone else.

Does that make sense?

Don’t get me wrong. I’m not one of those people who gushes, “Lord, bring on the trials. I know I’ve got to grow so lay them on.” To me that’s like a five-year old marching up to his dad and saying, “Dad, I know you spank me for my own good and I really want to improve as a person so her you go.”

Upon which, he turns around and bends over so that his dad can punish him.

I get enough trials without asking for them, thank you. Continue reading

The Man Who Changed the Meaning of His Name

I once had a friend who said that if he had boys he was going to name them “Thunder” and “Lightning.” I’m not sure how the story came out but I strongly suspect that his wife had the last word if they had boys.

But, names do mean something. Johnny Cash wailed about a Boy Name Sue in one of his songs. That named caused innumerable fights for the unfortunate young man.

How does this name grab you? “Caleb.”

I love that name. When I hear it I think, “manly, strong, brave, leader, Godly, faith-filled, persistent.” The man in the Bible who carried this name showed all these characteristics and more. He was one of the great men of God.

You know what his name meant originally? “Dog!”

Now, some say it might be translated as “wholehearted.” But, if the first translation is right, what kind of people would name their son “dog?” That’s worse than Sue.

I suspect the “wholehearted” translation is closer to reality but just suppose that “dog” was the real translation. You never think of that when you think of Caleb.

You think of that courageous warrior who was still leading armies to kill giants in his old age. Caleb changed the meaning of his name. When we hear Caleb we think of what the great leader was and we want our boys to be like that.

Think about it. He may very well have changed the sense of his name.

Maybe you don’t like your name or there may be a blemish attached to your family history. You may have stained your name, yourself.

You can change the meaning of your name. Let God live through you. From now on, live in the power of his Spirit”let his character and his courage shine through you.

Just like Caleb may have changed the meaning of his name, when people think of you they will think of what you are in Christ-Jesus. You can change the meaning of your name.

“The nations will see your righteousness,
and all kings your glory;
you will be called by a new name
that the mouth of the LORD will bestow.

“You will be a crown of splendor in the LORD’s hand,
a royal diadem in the hand of your God.
Isaiah 62: 2, 3
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“Change is not easy. But it is simple. Things will always change. We don’t have a choice about that, but we do have a choice on how we react to change; and as a leader whether or not we choose to create change. The choice really boils down to this…either we manage change, or it will manage us.”  Terry Hoggard

Six Scrawny Pennies

“Eventually hard work gets mistaken for talent.”–E.M.

Once, when I was about four years old I thought I had discovered a way to get rich. My great uncle Tommy had a cotton patch next to my Grand-dad Deloney’s house, and I was at mamaw’s when Uncle Tommy was hiring people to pick his cotton.

What a chance for an enterprising four-year old! Mamaw outfitted me with an empty grain sack to put my cotton in, but most importantly she made me something to eat. You can’t work hard without eating and those two peanut-butter and jelly sandwiches would do the trick.

So, I joined several people already hard at work under the hot mid-morning sun. Visions of money danced in my head. They didn’t dance for long, though, because visions of peanut-butter and jelly sandwiches began to cavort in their place.

A man’s got to keep up his strength, so I found a quiet spot and enjoyed the world while the others picked. A bit later it was time to weigh the cotton because we were paid by the weight.

I only had a little bit in the bottom of the sack but somehow I persuaded myself that was worth a lot of money. And if not, Uncle Tommy was still grand-dad’s brother and blood counted for something didn’t it?

Uncle Tommy said he would drop by mamaw’s to leave my pay. Later, grandma passed my salary on to me”six cents. Six measly pennies! That was about 1954 but still, six cents! My visions of all I was going to buy with my salary evaporated.

Actually, there was an important reason that I didn’t make much money that day–I didn’t do much. I probably spent more time eating than I did working. Here’s a fact of life for most of us: if you don’t work much, you don’t get paid much.

This principle works in the realm of our service for God. Salvation is free but we are servants of the living God. And servants are supposed to work.

Lots of people want to give the Lord their spare time, spare change, and the spare parts of their heart. He’s not their priority but more like a fire-insurance policy. We throw our left-overs on the altar of sacrifice and expect God to be impressed.

And we wonder what’s missing.

Almighty God gave his all for us. Did you know that He expects our best in return? “Oh, I can’t because but I’m not very capable,” we say humbly. Often in these cases “humble” is a synonym for “lazy.”

Erwin McManess said, “Eventually hard work gets mistaken for talent.”

I read of a beautiful young lady who was visiting in Romania after the fall of the communist government. She saw abandoned children living in sewers. She wasn’t particularly qualified to do anything about the situation–but she did. It was tough but lots of kids’ lives are different because she worked for the Lord!

Maybe it’s time to do a little check-up. Are we working hard for the Lord, or are we spending most of our time eating peanut-butter and jelly sandwiches in the shade?

“Hard work always pays off; mere talk puts no bread on the table.” (Prov. 14:23, The Message) “But by the grace of God I am what I am, and his grace to me was not without effect. No, I worked harder than all of them”yet not I, but the grace of God that was with me.” (1 Cor. 15:10, NIV)

Six cents! I still can’t believe that. Six measly cents!

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“Do not wait for inspiration to strike. Inspiration is only ever granted to those who work hard.” Zoe Heller, writer.

Hands Up !

How you act when you’re in a position of power reveals a lot about who you are.

A friend of mine was playing cowboys with his two year old son Samuel. The toddler took to the game like an old hand.

The next morning the little one walked into the bedroom where his visiting aunt was staying and commanded, “Hands up!” The aunt, amused, complied then the little one continued, “Now, take me to McDonald’s!”

The fellow thought he was in a position of power but his play pistol didn’t command a lot of respect and McDonalds had to wait for another day.

Your actions when you have the advantage over another person tell a lot about you. David the fugitive had Saul the king at a disadvantage in the cave and could have easily slipped up behind the delusional leader to jam his sword into his back (1 Samuel 24:6).

But he didn’t. “How can I touch the man God has anointed?” he said in effect. He left it up to God to deal with the crazy ruler. How do we act when we know some juicy gossip that’s just waiting to be told but we also know that what we say will hurt the person we’re talking about? Do we shut up or run off at the mouth to put the other fellow down, hoping it will put us higher up the ladder?

Don’t abuse a position of power.

Solomon had a dream that we dream of having. God basically told him to ask whatever he wanted. Whoa! Money? Power? Giant banana splits? What would you ask for in a position of power like that? (1 Kings 3:5)

The young king asked for wisdom to rule God’s because he sensed his inadequacy. People have fought and killed for what Solomon could have had for the asking, but the young king revealed his heart by his requests.

Too bad he didn’t remember the lesson later on.

You show what you are by the way you treat the waiter at the restaurant, the children in your class, your employees, your wife, people in your church, or anyone that you have an advantage over. Do you abuse your authority or do you use your authority to build them up and help them?

Power must be coupled with mercy to be used correctly. Don’t run over people or magnify yourself so that you think you look good to others. Your use of power, authority and advantage tells us what you are.

Here’s how God treats those weaker than He is (which is 100% of us):

“He gives power to the weak,
And to those who have no might He increases strength.
Even the youths shall faint and be weary,
And the young men shall utterly fall,
But those who wait on the LORD
Shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint. (Is. 40:28-30, NKJV)

Let’s go and do likewise.

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“Sometimes in the winds of change we find our true direction.”

The Romantic Way

When we lived in Luxembourg we took some American friends to visit our favorite castle in nearby Germany. The Eltz castle hides in a deep valley in the middle of a hilly forest and Phyllis and I fell in love with it the first time we saw it.

Usually, we approached the castle from the north, left the car in the parking place and then walked through a road in the woods to see this dream from the past.

This particular day I turned off the main highway too soon and we actually came up on the other side. I saw a sign for the castle, though, that seemed very promising, “Romantischen Weg,” or something of the sort.

I know just enough German to be dangerous, so I announced to the others, “That says that this is the Romantic Path.” So we all decided to follow the Romantic Path to see the castle. We made a steep descent through the forest, trying to watch all the time not to trip on the underbrush, rocks, etc and break our ankle. Or stumble and break our heads.

All around us bears, lions and tigers roared (actually it was probably birds but I just added lions and tigers for dramatic effect). It was a tough way to go but we finally got there in more or less one piece. We decided that the Romantic Path wasn’t too romantic. You worried more about protecting life and limb than about romance.

I learned that if a Frenchman told me something was romantic I would believe him. If an Italian sings that something is romantic, I’ll believe him, too, but if a German tells me something is romantic, I’m going to be careful.

I could imagine a couple of German lovers on the Romantic Trail.

“Heidi kommt. Hier ist den romantischen Weg.
» (Come on Heidi. This is the romantic path.)”

Huff, puff, huff, huff. « Ich komme, Klaus. Ich hoffe daß ich keine cardiac Krise auf diesem romantischen Weg habe. » (“I’m coming, Klaus. I hope I don’t have a heart attack on this romantic trail.”)

(My apologies to my German friends for my lousy German and the teasing).

Often the same words mean different things to different people. Someone has well noted that when your wife says, “Honey, how do you like my new hair-do?” she’s not really asking a question. If you actually give her your opinion as it seems she wants you to do, you risk having to cook for yourself for several days afterward.

Hint, sir. If you don’t like it and you’re a Christian and you don’t want to lie, just say, “Darling, there’s not three people in this state with hair like that.” Or, you can say, “Wow, that’s what I call hair!” Or something of that sort. Never say, “You make me think of your mother with your hair done like that.”

Different images for different people.

The word “Christian” is like that. People have murdered, raped, stolen, and ran roughshod over others in the Name of Christ. Profiteers have used that name to manipulate, dominate, and steal money from people.

What is the real meaning of the word “Christian,”? For me it’s a person who has asked forgiveness for his sin and placed his faith in Christ and what he did at the Cross for a new life that comes from God the Father.

You know a person is a Christian because He’s a follower of Christ. I’m not against denominations. I’m a member of one,  but it’s not because of his denomination, that you know he’s a Christ-follower. It’s because he lives a life of love that transcends earthly love. It’s because his life makes you think of Jesus.

This “Christian” is a worshipper. He looks for hurts that he can heal. He lives to build up others and he constantly desires to know the Lord better.

Here in Europe the majority of the people say they are “Christians” but very few of them actually love the Lord or try to be the kind of people He’s commanded us to be. No wonder Muslims, Buddists, Hindus and others are confused.

Gandhi said, “”I like your Christ, I do not like your Christians. Your Christians are so unlike your Christ.” I think people who call themselves Christians need to make sure that they’ve had a heart-change from God through Christ and then begin to really follow Christ and imitate Him.

Words can be confusing whether it concerns romantic trails, hair styles or Christians. Let’s make sure there’s no question about the word, “Christian,” because of us.

“You groped your way through that murk once, but no longer. You’re out in the open now. The bright light of Christ makes your way plain. So no more stumbling around. Get on with it! The good, the right, the true”these are the actions appropriate for daylight hours. Figure out what will please Christ, and then do it.” (Ephesians 5:8-10 The Message)

“But what happens when we live God’s way? He brings gifts into our lives, much the same way that fruit appears in an orchard”things like affection for others, exuberance about life, serenity. We develop a willingness to stick with things, a sense of compassion in the heart, and a conviction that a basic holiness permeates things and people. We find ourselves involved in loyal commitments, not needing to force our way in life, able to marshal and direct our energies wisely. (Gal. 5: 22-23, The Message)

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Cowboy philosophy 1001: “Don’t squat with your spurs on … Good judgment comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment … Never slap a man who’s chewin’ tobacco.” Will Rogers